You Don’t Own Me

You Don’t Own Me

Sep 3, 2017, 11:42:26 PM Creative

You cannot possess me.

You cannot tell me how to think or feel. You cannot dictate where my heart goes, or where my eye wanders off to.

I will not give you the book of my life and allow you to write in the blank pages for me. Because those pages are mine, they were given to me to fill out in whatever way I see fit. And you may feature as a character in my story, but you cannot control the story.

You shouldn’t. And I hope you don’t even want to.

Because, my dear love, I spent so much time in a cage already. I sat there, alone, cold, confused, wondering why I couldn’t see the blue, blue sky that everyone outside the bars spoke so highly of.

I wanted that sky. I spent so long, dreaming of the breeze that my feathers would find when I had the opportunity to stretch my wings. I just didn’t realize that I couldn’t fly while in that cage.

And one day, I realized it.

And I broke the cage.

And the one who placed me there, he was so mad, he told me that I was wrong for doing so, but I didn’t care. Because while he screamed, I was looking up, and I could see the sky for the first time ever. And it made me realize that I never, ever, ever wanted to be caged up again.

So please, I beg of you: don’t do that to me. Don’t even try. The moment I catch the briefest hint of iron bars, I will spread my wings and I will be gone, because that is in my nature, beloved. I do not want to leave you. I do not want to be alone forever. But more important than that, I cannot be caged.

I won’t allow it.

And you will whisper sweet words to me, try to tell me that you are mine and I am yours, but I am not yours. I will never be yours. I am mine. I belong to me. I control my heart, my thoughts, my actions, my life. I will never surrender to you completely, so much as you may want me to.

You are your best thing” – Toni Morrison.

And I love you. I want to love you. I will love you. But I do not want to own you. I do not want you to be mine. Because you are yours, you are your best thing, and I am my best thing, and together, we will be two great things existing alongside one another, supporting one another, making each other greater and stronger and beautiful, and we will build an empire with our most marvellous power, because together, you and I can do it, I know we can.

All I ask is that you let this happen. You let me happen. Don’t stifle me or belittle me or try to make me less than what I am. Don’t try to put out my flame; I will only burn you.

And if you try to put out my flame, then believe me; I want to burn you.

Published by Ciara Hall

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