Hey guys I'm back again! So I just got home from a really inspiring and faith-filled weekend down in Steubenville, Ohio at a youth conference, but that's a story for another time.
I was on the bus on my way to this conference and was sitting with my best friend in almost the very last row of seats. There were two other girls in front of us who were younger and I think they might have been going into their sophomore or junior year of high school. And in front of these two girls were two guys who were around the same age. So my best friend and I were minding our own business, on our phones looking at social media (Twitter: @Hey_im_Dallas and Instagram: @dallas_g98) and it's a pretty long bus ride. Plus we got stuck in traffic so a normally 5-6 hour drive turned into an almost 9 hour drive. And what do two 18 year old girls do in that time other than stare at our phones? We sleep. So I'm sleeping. And Jake Miller or Austin Mahone is playing in my headphones and I only have one in because I wear a hearing aid so I have that in my left ear which leaves me to only be able to use my right earphone. And I'm sleeping for a good hour and half but am rudely awoken. And no, not by my friend annoying me or my mom taking fifty million pictures of me. But by these two girls laughing insanely loudly. And we have been on the road for like maybe three hours. They were quiet at the beginning and I thought I'd be okay to sleep. Well I thought wrong. These girls are laughing and screaming and yelling as loud as they possibly can. And you know why? Because of these two boys in front of them. The girls are obviously flirting but apparently it isn't obvious to the guys like it is to me and my friend. So I immediately started looking for the signs and they were all there. I thought, 'hey maybe someone should tell the guys what the tell-tale signs of flirting are so they can recognize it too. Well, here we are. Take notes boys.
- Laughing loudly - the things these boys saying probably weren't that funny. But the way the girls were laughing you would think they were professional comedians. Guys, if she's laughing at everything you say and she's laughing way harder than necessary, she's into you and you need to see that.
- Acting dumber than she is - we girls are usually pretty smart. We go to school and we learn things and it usually doesn't go in one ear and out the other. (Notice I said usually. Sometimes there's a rare occasion that a girl really is dumb and can't understand simple things) So if a girl is acting like she doesn't understand what you're saying, it's usually because we have this idea that guys like stupid girls. Which isn't true...at least I don't think so.
- She's always touching you in some way - this wasn't meant to be dirty. Get your mind out of the gutter. I meant that she's reaching to grab your phone or she's putting her hand on your arm or she's playfully pushing you. SHE'S FLIRTING.
So guys. I hope this helped. I hope that now if you sit by a girl on a bus to a conference, you can tell she's flirting and make a move so the people sitting behind you can sleep peacefully and not be woken up by this girl's laughing and screaming.
That's all for now guys, I'll talk to you later!!!
Published by Dallas Gomez