~Being Positive~


I have to say in life sometimes it is hard to be positive about certain things. Coming from a person such as myself who was raped at the age of 14 and almost raped again at the age of 18 after I had my son both times by guys I knew or thought I knew. Guys I went to school with and one I grew up with, but as some say you never really and truly know a person.

I have learned that in life if you want to live life a certain way you have to be positive. You have to look at the brighter side of things. When one is constantly negative all the time you will always bring depression and sadness into your life.
Some ask me how am I the way that I am and to be honest I really don’t know what to tell them but that is all God and you really can’t say that to every one because a lot of people don’t share the same faith as I do but I can’t say that there was not one point in time of my life where I was not the way that I am now.

True I have had some not so nice situations in my life occur from abusive relationships, to rape, and to a host of surgeries and nasty break ups… but I guess when you have been through so much and you feel as if the world is against you due to the illnesses that you have sometimes it’s in you to prove them wrong and that is how I feel. I really don’t know any other way to explain how or why I am the way that I am. I guess it’s just the God in me after all he is my creator….

Positivity: the quality or state of being positive, something that is positive.
In life we only get one chance to live it and do things right so why would anyone want to sit there and live life depressed? If this feeling of depression is not something you can shake get help…No one has to deal with it alone…
Social Butterflyy


Published by Life of a Unique Woman