All you see around is people standing up for d rights of a girl child.. but today.. I detest…. because no matter how  far you go on forcing people to let a girl child come to this world,  they  wont let them be happy,if at all they let them come to this world under some pressure…. So let them kill us long before we can come to this world…

             How far can you stand up for a girl’s rights? Right from the time she is conceived, till the time she dies, she needs to fight…  fight to come this world, then fight to be educated, to be respected, to be loved, to be cared for, to be wanted, to work, to marry with her choice, to be safe, to go out when she wants..

All her life a girl has to live for someone else..she has to live on someone else’s defined lines…As a daughter, she has to go by her Father’s guidelines, As a sibling, she has to follow what her brother tells her.. As a wife,she has to follow her partner and As a Mother,she lives for her Son… She has no individuality.. She has lost herself somewhere inside this world… 

No matter how much a Father would do for her , as it is his responsibility..no matter how much love and affection he would give her.. She would be the most attached to him…and in the end..imagine her misery when one day, she would realize that they wish they rather had a son… imagine her plight when she has been dying to fulfill her Father’s dreams and he comes up saying in front of 20 people that  he is ashamed to be her Father...and then she breaks down…

When her brother locks her down back at home cuz he doesn’t  want her to be out in the world… he does not want her to be independent..all he wants to do is cut down her wings and never let her fly…She cannot work, She cant wear what she likes, she cant go where she wants and She jus cant be herself..

She falls in love with someone, she gets married and thereafter she has to live as her husband and his family says… wake up according to them, eat, sleep , walk and wear according to them… she has to be a good daughter in law ..her husband has got ol the rights in the world to treat her as he wants..love her,cheat her or beat her.. she has to bear it…she has to give birth to a son or else she is pointed at by the society…The irony of a lady is such .. that being a woman herself, she prays to Lord not to give her a baby girl, just cuz she knows what she has gone through and she would never want her child to bear the same…

Then she becomes a mother, She has to live for her son.. till the time,she fulfills all his needs, she is the best mother, and the day she cant, she is a failure.. She would be up early to make sure he is not late for his work,she stays awake till the time he does not come back late at night..but one day if she tells him to come back early, he would not understand the concern behind her eyes, all he would do is scream and shout at her for snatching away her  freedom…

Then why stand up for a Girl Child… Why not let them die before they come to this world..?  There they wont even feel that they have been killed…there wont be any pain.. rather than letting them come to this world and make them die each day….

   

Published by Tia Sharma