Dear ex-boyfriend(s) ||#LettersIWillNeverSend Like 1 Twitter Mara RGSTR Follow July 30, 2016, 10:35 a.m. in Life and Styles Views: 686 Like us on facebook Dear ex-boyfriend, This letter will definitely come up as a surprise to you! I hope you are doing well and that you are more than happy... really! I am writing to thank you. Another surprise probably. I was reflecting and going through memories and events that made me the person I am today and I realised that I would have been ungrateful if I did not mention you. In many ways you have helped me grow to be the woman I am. Since we are no longer together, I can say that you have been a great lesson and experience in my life. You have taught me many things about myself, about life and about love. Whether the relationship ended 5, 4 or 1 year ago, the impact it had on my life is still very relevant. You probably don't care but I think I am in a better place now. I have found peace within. I have grown up and matured and I pray you have too. You have taught me how to talk about how I feel. It was such a difficult thing to do when we were together. That's when you realise how annoying life can be: sometimes, you sow something amazing for someone else to reap. I hope it it the case in your life. I hope in some way, shape or form I have made you a better man. Probably not the best you can be but you get where I am coming from. You know how sometimes you don't know what you want but you are 100% sure of what you do not want.... ? Yeah, you helped me with that one too. I found out traits that I definitely do not want in the person I will be dating and end up marrying as well as things to definitely look for in this person. Unfortunately, on a less positive side, you have also uncovered many of my insecurities and flaws but guess what..? Now I have embraced them and found my way around them. Of course, I am a work in progress but I am no longer in shambles or waiting for a man's approval. I have a stronger mind. I know what i want better and I am here to go and get it. Therefore, from the depth of my heart I thank you and like Adele said- if you are in a relationship- "I wish nothing but the best for you." I hope this letter does not come out as bitter or anything like this. It is purely a reflection time and surely a letter I will never send... Take great care of yourself and your significant other. M. Share Mail Messenger Twitter Pinterest Linkedin Comments Related Article Life and Styles My Ultimate Car Trip Playlist Life and Styles My Satellite Life and Styles Pregnant and Loving it?