How Anxiety Has Made Me Stronger Like 2 Twitter Ciara Hall Follow Dec. 17, 2016, 5:15 p.m. in Life and Styles Views: 663 Like us on facebook Some days are better than others. I can't really say what distinguishes the bad days from the good. Sometimes, it'll just seem like a thought strikes me when I'm in a bad mood or when I'm hungry, and then my mind will refuse to let it go, clinging tight to it. You're directionless, and you'll never amount to anything unless you change that. Oh my god, you're right, I realize, and suddenly the next few weeks are spent in a mad rush to get things done - even if there really isn't much to get done. Especially when there isn't much to get done. Then, sometimes, I can go for days, weeks, even months without even remembering that I have anxiety. I'll be relaxed, happy, driven but not to the point that I'm causing myself stress over it. I'll think hopefully to myself, I'm cured! but even at the time, I'll know it won't be true. Because at the end of the day, I know what I am; I am a person with anxiety, whether I like it or not. I first discovered that I had anxiety when I was about nineteen years old, though I know that I had it long before that. I simply hadn't attached a name to it yet, because I was still frantically Googling "why am I stressed all the time" to figure out what was wrong with me. Putting a name to the problem was a huge relief, but even still, I elected not to use medication. I wasn't entirely opposed to the idea, but I wanted to find out if I could learn to control it on my own first. After reading about the problem and coming to understand it a bit better, my first attempt at controlling it was through diet and exercise. I tried to eat healthier, tried to keep myself active, and with time, I did find that it made a bit of a difference. I was less prone to stress when I ate a good, healthy meal every two to three hours. The only problem with it was whenever I couldn't depend on that level of regularity, whenever the third hour drifted by and my stomach was left empty and yearning, I got just as bad as I had been before. I have been known to go into panic attacks simply because the person in line behind me at Shoppers Drug Mart was just a tiny bit rude. So, yes, eating healthy and keeping active most certainly helped, but in no way did it cure me. My second attempt at controlling my anxiety was through a simple change in thought. I tried to be more mindful of my condition and take things slower, recognize when I was getting bad. If I felt myself going into a panic attack, I'd try to talk to myself, remind myself that I was alright and that it was only my anxiety. If I felt like I was going to fast, hurdling toward a brick wall that I knew would break me, I'd remind myself that I needed to slow down. Sometimes it worked. Sometimes I simply forgot about it. My attempts at controlling anxiety have, as you can see here, been flawed - but effective nonetheless. Regardless of their moments of failure, they have, nonetheless, made me a much stronger person. When I discovered that I had anxiety, it was only because I was crippled by it - I had no other choice than to confront it. That most certainly is not the case anymore. I'm a functioning, self-aware person who is striving to meet my goals - not despite my anxiety, but regardless of it. My anxiety will always be a part of me - I will never be cured of it entirely, but maybe I don't have to be. Maybe my anxiety is less a disorder, something that stands in my way and mars me somehow, and more just a part of me - a character trait. Just like some people have to learn how to function in this world regardless of the fact that they're abrupt or stubborn or self-absorbed, I have to learn how to function regardless of being frequently anxious. I'm a person with anxiety in the same way that I'm a person with red hair, and a person with an affinity for pop culture. It is nothing for me to be ashamed of, and it is not something that holds me back. It is something that I have learned how to control and live with. It is something that makes me stronger, not weaker. Share Mail Messenger Twitter Pinterest Linkedin Comments Quelly And Dorian reply / view replies (0) Dec. 17, 2016, 6:14 p.m. Great post, thanks for sharing! :) Your comment was successful. Full Name* Message* Load More Related Article Life and Styles Ten Tips For Surviving Anxiety (According to Me) Life and Styles I am not nothing... I am someone Life and Styles Our safe place.