In this world full of miseries and problems, sadness and hatefulness, greediness and sorrows, everyone runs towards happiness and little things that keep a person happier, and what a beautiful thing is this if the joy, pleasure, and satisfaction come from your partner’s side?

You might age 20 or 80; it doesn't matter how long you walked in their life or how old you grow, the contentment on your face demonstrates the joy you share with your partner.

No relationship is perfect; every relationship is different. Connections are created from commitment and go along with mutual respect and pure love. It’s not that marriages get successful in a week’s time they need a lot of effort and compromise.

So by doing these ten things you can improve your beautiful bond, but you should be determined to make work one.

10 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO BE HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHIP

1.    LOVE YOUR SELF:

The first and foremost rule to apply when you are working on your married life is to love yourself; first, you have to be the best planner to adopt your surroundings and manage the time and skills accordingly. Even your partner wants you to be happy and confident. Do things that you enjoy on your own like going out with friends, enjoy a relaxing time at the salon, and continue your studies, live for yours. These things will make you happy, and with this, you can share the cheerfulness with your partner as well.

Discover yourself and fall in love with yourself, you will be your best version for the person to whom you fall in love.

2.    DON’T EXPECT MUCH FROM EACH OTHER:

When we start the walk of life with each other, we start expecting a lot from each other. You make breakfast each day, so your partner expects this act from you every day. We look after children each day, so they start to expect us to do this every day. You should be contented whenever they do it and help your partner in performing the household chores.

We should immediately get rid of the expectations, by doing this you will value your partner, and you will feel positive about yourself. So ditching hopes can bring tremendous joy to your life.

3.    SPEND QUALITY TIME TOGETHER:

Spending time together doesn't mean that you have to go out on dinners or making plans or checking out work schedules. It could be the day; it could be the night it could be any time it’s just that you spend quality time together.

You can talk and share happiest moments with your partner while having tea, watching a movie, traveling for office trips, paying bills, you can do fun things that bond you as a couple.

4.    GIVE SPACE TO EACH OTHER:

Freedom is for everyone. You shouldn’t be so demanding to someone to make a healthy and happy relationship. Sometimes a person breaks and needs some loneliness and personal time. You should realize whether your partner is upset or not? Or does he want to spend some time in solitude? Set the boundaries. Privacy is essential, and it's a right of a person so let's give your partner good space, to be your selves and miss each other.

5.    EXPRESS APPRECIATION:

A relationship is a beautiful part of life and to make it more appealing and attractive expressing is the key. Whether in public or during a candlelight dinner, whether in dirty clothes during work or a little effort of making tea, appreciation is a vital principle to create a healthy and stable relationship. A partner should be content with his/her partner’s attempts to run a successful marriage.

6.    BE EMPATHETIC:

We all go through sick days, sad nights and lazy moments, and if in those times the partner beside us accentuates your terrible mood rather than showing compassion, it's even worse. So you should try your very best to cheer him up because this can happen to anyone. Practically show your presence for him/her as you are the other half of your soul mate. After all, we are human beings, and we need someone to share our sorrows.

7.    GIVE FIRST PRIORITY TO YOUR PARTNER:

Family comes first. And the two people who made this family should be equally valuable for each other. Men and women are two different creatures; they have different wants and desires. You need to acknowledge them and give them priority in life rather than anyone or work.

8.    SHOW RESPECT:

Respect is the key ingredient in the recipe of a happy relationship. Take out your time to listen to your partner carefully. Try to sort their problems when they are stuck in one. Even if you disagree and you have a different opinion regarding the matters, you should respect your partner’s opinion.

9.    BE CAREFUL WITH WORDS:

It goes well with the above ingredient of respect. Men and women are different inherently so are their thinking. You might have arguments on petty issues, but during this argument, you need to choose words carefully rather than the bitter words that stay back in your head and give you deep sadness inside.

10.    FORGIVE AND LET IT GO:

Everyone have their past; some have perfect lives while others have a bitter history. You need to forgive and forget each other's worst parts. We all are humans and can sin differently it doesn’t mean that one should remember the small mistakes of our partners and take revenge in the worse way. Life is too short to remember such negativity, so it's better to let go!!

Take away:

These are some common sense ways to make your relationship work. By following the tips shared on this, you can work on your relationship and start being happy!

 

Published by will Ent