And you will be betrayed by both by parents, brothers, and kinsfolk, and friends; and some of you shall they cause to be put to death.   Luke 21:16

  You'll have better luck escaping Alcatraz than getting an apology.   Sorry, there are people who will never be sorry for what they have done to you! You won’t hear them call and say ” I’m sorry, for everything that I’ve done.” Sometimes you may get a sorry but it isn’t genuine. People that are a true narcissist or sociopath are not capable of empathy. They really ain't sorry, so you have two choices dwell or live well.

 

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There are people who can abuse , misuse, and mistreat you. They won't lose any sleep  over deliberately hurting you.  Plainly put, they ain't sorry and don't care. Your friends mean well, but truth is he probably will never regret leaving you. Some people lack empathy, they can only be who they are.  

You can wait your whole life for a sincere apology and it will never come. You forgive them not because they deserve it because you need it.  Forgiveness is a process not just a word, it can take months or years. Everything in you wants to never-ever forgive them. Forgive them even if they aren't sorry. They are enjoying their life and you should too.

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 You don't want to forgive them and your anger turns to hate. Never give that person that much power over you. Forgive them for yourself, even if they aren't sorry. I know it’s hard to move on if you have to deal with them after divorce or any relationship.  I found it’s not the place you’re in but the state your in. You will be okay, without a sorry. Sorry can’t buy time back, reverse damage, give you life, wake you up, feed you, or give you eternal life, so it’s nice but not necessary.  Remember, man will always disappoint you, but you can be sure of one thing, you are loved!

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