Okay, So that’s a tiny exaggeration and probably classed as click bait but now that your here, Let me tell you a story.

The other night, My Husband and I were having a romantic Maccas combo in the car at an empty parking lot (Nana was looking after the kids while we got some essentials from the supermarket, and we took it upon ourselves to enjoy the time to ourselves and get a late dinner)
We got to talking and as per usual i made some self hate comments about my body and my weight, Now normally he would be polite and tell me how beautiful he thinks I am and be done with it, But tonight he didn’t.

He said ” Babe, Stop it, I love that your Thick” now some people might find this offensive but i was filled with butterflies. Never in the 7 years we have been together had he ever said that. He has always told me I’m beautiful and sexy and all of the above compliments a husband can give, but never has he acknowledged my size and the fact that he loved it, i always just kinda assumed he was paying me compliments just to show he loves me and wasn’t bothered by my size. But to hear him say “I love that you are on the bigger side” was magic to my ears! For the first time in i don’t even know how long, I FELT Beautiful, I felt attractive and i felt worthy.

I love him even more than i ever did and never have I appreciated him more. I am so grateful that he is in my life.

I wanted to share this story to send a message.

Every one deserves a partner who loves them exactly as they are, Never settle for less.

K x

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Published by Kristy Paddison