In order for us to grow, we need to learn from other people, other things and other experiences.

I know, it’s easy to be attracted to someone similar. Someone who can relate to you and who agrees with you on every major issue. Most likely, your relationship will become stagnant. Surely it is comforting and it is easy to be considered loving. But they are not keys for growth.

Strong relationships aren’t composed of two people having almost the same views, personalities and experiences. It is made up of people who challenge each other daily to reach new levels of understanding.

Choose someone who can fill up your weaknesses with their strengths. Whose energetic when you’re tired, motivated when you’re lazy and vice versa.

Keep it cool.:)

♥j