Saare mard ek jaise hote hai” (All men are same )”

Ever heard this dialogue in movies or from one of your female friend ?

I grew up listening to this dialogue.

Is it because of a particular reason or just because they have something in common ?

Well , there are many things starting from the passion of sports to getting laid , but is it fair that we categorize them in the same bucket because of these things.
We women have more things in common , like shopping , gossiping etc.. Ever heard any man saying ” All women are the same ” ?

Do you really think that all men are the same ?

No , I mean
not every men rape ,
not every men howl ,
not every men kill ,
not every men indulge in eve teasing or sexual abuse ,
not every men will cheat on you ,
not every men is a criminal …..

Just look at the good men around you, what about them ? Do they get enough credit for being nice ? Do we ever appreciate their presence in our lives ?

I agree that some men will stare at your breasts continuously , while traveling through metro. But some will sacrifice their own seats ! What about them ?

I agree some will pass dirty comments as you go , but some will make sure that you are back home. SAFE ! What about them ?

I agree some men indulge themselves in sexual abuse & harassment , but some men out their believe in sisterhood and ideal relationships! What about them ?

I agree some men will make you cry , but some will make you Laugh Out Loud ! What about them ?

I agree some men are born with dishonesty running in their blood , but some men are so honest that it makes us laugh ! What about them?

I agree that some men are not loyal in relationship , but what about them who redefines love ! What about them ?

….& so on.

So girls and women reading this , ever imagine how our lives would have been without these awesome men around us ?

They aren’t told this enough , but their presence matter a lot and should be appreciated.

So lets take out few minutes from our lives and thank these good men around us who have made our lives wonderful. The men who choose to be men. Yes they are the MAN , our unsung heroes !  And we are proud of them , aren’t we?

( this post was first published here , )

                                                                                                  –Unnati Madan


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