The Wrecking Ball Soulmate Like 0 Twitter Melissa Ramsay Follow Oct. 6, 2016, 10:55 a.m. in Life and Styles Views: 1262 Like us on facebook A while ago I was introduced to the concept of the wrecking ball soulmate. It was around the time that my relationship was coming to an end with my own wrecking ball soulmate. It's a perfect way to describe what that relationship was for me. You know, the kind that hits you like a tornado and leaves a path of mass destruction in its wake. Now that some time has passed and I can look back more clearly I realize how much I gained in that process. It challenged my beliefs (made me realize that there are ones I have that I can't compromise), it made me sit deep in feelings I hadn't had for years - good feelings, happy feelings. It made me question who I am and how I want to be in a relationship. It made me know to the core of my soul that no man is ever going to be the boss of me again. I believe that true, equal partnerships can be formed. I finally know my worth and my value - and that knowledge is not dependent on what anyone else thinks of me. I needed to learn those lessons. I also firmly believe that there are really, really good men out there. I was raised by one, I am raising one. I had a long conversation with a childhood friend today. We talked about relationships, life, horses, kids... the whole thing. I filled her in on the last year of my life and we laughed at some of the tragedies and celebrated the wins. Because that's what good friends do - find the funny and lift you up. This tribe I have.... it's insane. I don't know how I would ever survive without them, and I'm so thankful for every single member . Sharing life stories, sorting out things, laughing and feeling peace with her was my moment of happiness today. Published by Melissa Ramsay Share Mail Messenger Twitter Pinterest Linkedin Comments Related Article Life and Styles DEAR WOMEN Life and Styles Escape from the BS Life and Styles It Is Still August Right?