This is a blog that will be very short and to the point... I have lived my life all of the 41 years I have been on earth and I have always worn my heart on my sleeve... I had trust for everyone in every walk of life and I still do. I don't know any other way to be, BUT at the same time, you have to guard your heart as well. 

Trusting someone when you have been hurt is not an easy thing so my message to you all who are reading this don't repeat the same cycle in life and constantly give someone the opportunity to hurt you over and over again. Don't be blinded to a point of where you have broken up with someone 3+ times and yet you keep bringing them back into your life and surrounding your life with them. If they've taken advantage of you once before what makes you think they won't do it again.

If you notice that this person only comes around when they need something or want something from you, its time for you to bounce...

If said person won't commit to you in a relationship but finds the time to text you late at night and brings up things that they need to do and places they need to get to DO NOT offer to bring them because that is what they want you to do... 

They don't want to come out and ask you because then it will make them feel sorta guilty when they don't have gas money to give you or when you expect more from them than they are willing to give. If you offer than they owe you NOTHING...

Guard your heart, soul, spirit, and future by being careful who you allow in your life, home, and your overall circle. I myself love to have friends I want to have someone who I can go and have lunch/brunch with someone I can invite over to my home and cook dinner with and share a glass or 2 of wine with while watching something fun on television but when the trust isn't there what can you do. Because if I don't trust you I can't fuck with you...

I hate to, and yes I said HATE to see young girls (18+ to 30+) get involved in relationships (friendships) and allow themselves to be taken advantage of time and time again and walk away with NOTHING to show for it... I have been there I have helped one of my ex's purchase a truck that he didn't keep for any more than six months and that was $2800. I could have spent on my own vehicle at the age of 20 something but I was taken advantage of by that person when if he loved me he would have helped me get my license and my own vehicle and at this point, I really can't stand this person at this point in my life. I have helped an ex-friend with her children by purchasing clothes and shoes and well I don't fuck with that person anymore either. I have taken food out of my home to feed friends rather I had it to share or not but I did it because that is the kind of person I am but does it matter to them NO cause I don't deal with any of them anymore. I don't have time for the fakeness of others.. Once I am done I am done depending on the situation.

Some say its crazy how some people can dead a friendship and yet constantly give a man several tries in life to break your heart and for me when I am in a relationship I look at it as if I am going to marry this man and spend my life with him and well friendships these days come and go no one is loyal anymore no one holds friendships the way I do and I hold friendships the same way I hold relationships if we have a 3+ year friendship I will do my best to save it and if I see that I am the only one trying to save friendship/relationship Im gonna shoot up the deuces and Im walking away... I have my SON, GOD, and my DOG so I am fine... I also have my fiance at this moment but who knows what the future holds. I live life one day at a time...

 

Be Careful who you are Loyal too...

 

#BG

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Published by Life of a Unique Woman