Hi everyone, 

today I'm going to talk about setting your boundaries and respecting yourself.

First of all, I want you to imagine that you are in a situation that you would feel:

  1.  unprotected,
  2. disrespected and
  3. pressured.

Now, is the time to set your boundaries. Do you respect yourself enough to say no to someone? Are you capable of protecting yourself first? Yes you are, because you need to be and people that actually care about you, love and respect you want you to be.

I was in a position the other day were I felt pressured to kiss someone that I had only known for less than a day. I never asked for it to happen, I get sick even thinking about it. I thank God that I was mature enough and strong enough to say no to this person and  get me out of this situation.

The worst part was that I felt bad for saying no when he said to me that I don't live my life like a 20-year-old would. Who are you to tell me how to live my life? I am an independent woman who knows what she wants and this is not it!

If I can say NO then you can say it too because you only live once and you can't waste your precious time on anyone that does not deserve it!


P.S. My next articles are going to be about my passion ,which is fashion and style!

Thank you, for being you and I want you to feel a little bit stronger than before reading this article!

And don't forget: 

''People will stare, make it worth their while.''

Published by Soti You