Through the five years I've been writing this blog and reading the blogs of others on related topics, the more I am convinced that I have Asperger's Syndrome and DAMP. However, there are probably many who have known me in the years before and while the great majority of them would immediately point out that there is something wrong with me, they would be the first to shoot down my claim that I have Asperger's. Of course, some of these people were bullies or simply wanted to control me and would only say that it's not Asperger's because they didn't choose my affliction. What I am going to do now is to bring up the arguments I imagine would be used to counter my belief that I have the condition.

You're just weird: Nobody is just weird. Many people have metal illnesses which cause them to be perceived as such. The fact that I appear weird to you only proves that I have some sort of mental condition, most probably Asperger's.

Everyone is saying that they have Asperger's these days: True, more and more people are being diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome and this is a good thing. No one is saying it to be cool or trendy but they simply realize that they may have it. Just because more people are saying they have something doesn't mean that the majority of them are lying about it.

You just want to make excuses for yourself: Yes, I have had a lot of failure in my life and many successes. As I think back on the failures, sometimes it was down to my Asperger's and DAMP and the way they affect my mind. I don't need to make excuses but what I do need is for people to understand that I may do something that might seem not normal to you but logical to me. The other point is that I avoid many social situations that seem foreign to me because it does send my anxiety levels sky high. I now know why I have made many gaffes in these situations and my Asperger's is a fact, not an excuse!

You're proud of it: Uh, I doubt that anyone with Asperger's Syndrome is proud of the fact they have it. Most Aspies I know hate that they have this condition. I am not proud of the fact that I have Asperger's Syndrome and wish it would just go away.

You want everyone to feel sorry for you: Nobody has felt sorry for me before I found I have Asperger's Syndrome nor do I expect anyone to feel sorry for me now. Persons with Asperger's don't want pity, they just want understanding and acceptance.

You want to play the victim: Having been bullied in my childhood because I had undetected Asperger's Syndrome does tend to make me see myself as a victim. Therefore, I don't need to play what I was. Many Asperger's sufferers are easy victims because their condition makes them easy targets.

One from conservative Americans (Republicans mainly)- You're hoping to get lots of money from the government and live off my taxes: No I don't! I have a good job, actually three jobs so I am quite capable of supporting myself and family without help from the government. However, there are many people with Asperger's who are not able to do so without support. These people aren't welfare cheats, just ones in need of assistance. I even bring this argument into the story in "He Was Weird."

There are probably many more of these out there and I would love to hear contributions from others. These are the ones I fear would be put my way from those who refuse to believe or accept that I have Asperger's Syndrome.

To buy He Was Weird, go to: https://www.amazon.co.uk/He-Was-Weird-Michael-Lefevre/dp/1909740942/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1528311903&sr=1-1&keywords=he+was+weird

 

 

 

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