Bossy: (adj) fond of giving people orders; domineering.
Is “bossy” somebody telling me what to do, or is “bossy” somebody telling me what to do, displaying a bad attitude?
When I was growing up, it was assumed that some people would be bossy. They were given the authority to do so; it was expected of them.
It never occurred to us that our teachers would try to find a nice way of instructing us. No one would have dared go to the principal’s office and complain about a teacher having a nasty disposition.
So it seems that a luxury has slipped into the emotional bank account of the average American: “Since I don’t want to do anything other than what I’ve conjured in my own brain, I will consider anyone who tries to tell me what to do bossy and mean–even if they have the right.”
So basically, progress has slowed, as we run every suggestion through a filter of, “How did this make me feel?”
Published by Jonathan Cring